Essential Wedding Do's and Don'ts
As you step into the whirlwind of wedding planning, it's crucial to not only focus on the flowers, dresses, and cakes but also on the etiquette that makes weddings memorable for all the right reasons. As an experienced wedding coordinator, I’ve seen it all (well almost), and I’m here to share my insights on the dos and don'ts of wedding etiquette. These guidelines will not only help you navigate your big day smoothly but also ensure that your guests remember your wedding for all the right reasons!
The Dos:
Do Plan Ahead:
Start your wedding planning early. This allows you to secure the best vendors, venues, and dates, ensuring a smoother planning process and a memorable day.
Do Communicate Clearly:
Effective communication with your vendors, bridal party, and guests is essential. Be clear about your expectations, timelines, and any special arrangements you've made.
Do Respect Your Guests' Time:
Sending out save the dates and invitations well in advance gives your guests ample time to RSVP and plan their attendance. This consideration is especially crucial for destination weddings.
Do Send Thank-You Notes:
Gratitude goes a long way. Send personalized thank-you notes to your guests, acknowledging their presence and any gifts they've given you. Timeliness is essential; aim to send these notes within three months of the wedding.
Do Be Mindful of Your Guests' Comfort:
Consider the needs of your guests, especially those with dietary restrictions or physical challenges. Arrange for dietary options, seating accommodations, and easy accessibility.
The Don'ts:
Don't Overshare on Social Media:
While it's natural to be excited, refrain from sharing every single detail of your wedding planning process on social media. Keep some surprises for the big day!
Don't Neglect the RSVPs:
Take RSVPs seriously. A prompt response allows you to finalize your guest list, seating arrangements, and catering details. Follow up with guests who haven't responded closer to the deadline.
Don't Micromanage Your Guests:
While you might have a vision for your wedding, remember that your guests are there to celebrate you and have a great time. Avoid overly detailed instructions, and trust them to navigate the day.
Don't Neglect Your Bridal Party:
Remember that your bridal party is there to support you. Be considerate of their time and budget, and express your gratitude for their participation with thoughtful gestures and gifts.
In conclusion, wedding etiquette is about making everyone feel valued and appreciated. By adhering to these dos and don'ts, you'll not only create a memorable day for yourselves but also for your guests. Your wedding day is a celebration of love, and with the right etiquette, it will be a day everyone cherishes forever.
Don’t Throw Too Many Parties
Asking for someone to stand by your side for your special day comes with certain responsibilities. The typical bridal/couples shower, bachelor/bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, ceremony and reception is the perfect amount of obligations. If you’re hosting a destination wedding I would throw a welcome party into the mix as well so everyone can get to know one another! However, throwing any additional parties such as an engagement party, bridal luncheon, stock the bar party may be a little too overwhelming and costly for your bridal party and guests!
Happy planning and best wishes for your wedding day!
Warm regards,
Ashley Trahan